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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He's probably mad you made the decision without him [/quote] That's the thing. I tried to have a discussion. He would never give an answer other than "I don't know." So I waited and waited. No response to "you haven't watched cable in two months" other than "I still want it." So is the appropriate course of action to throw $900/year down the toilet just in case he may want to turn the tv on someday? We can buy a new HDTV each year at that rate. [/quote] So you wanted to have a discussion to cut something he wants, he said he wanted to keep it and despite this, you canceled it anyway because he won't discuss it. So, suppose you have a luxury that you really wanted, say you get you get a massage once a month just to relax you, he says he thinks you can't afford it, and rather than get into a fight about it, you just say "I still want it." Then you show up for your next appointment and find out after your conversation, he called and canceled your appointment and they booked someone else. Are you just going to think "Oh well, it was for the best" and whistle a happy tune all the way home and be nice to him when you get there? If he won't talk and you use that as an excuse to do something anyway, then you both need to grow up.[/quote]
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