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[quote=Anonymous]My friend and I are having a debate.  Please read and give your feedback!

A friend and I are regulars at a local bar/lounge. Not the type that attracts drunks or kids but more business types. Most people are in suits or well dressed and the average age is 40-60.  The staff is in professional attire (No short shirts or shirts that show much cleavage, etc). Recently, I've been telling my friend one of the two bartenders (both who are drop dead gorgeous) likes him. I've been telling him for almost a year now!  The other night I heard her talking to someone at the bar about sky diving and how she was going with her new boyfriend. Later that evening we're at the bar and I get a phone call. I step a few feet away and her and my friend are chatting. She brings up sky diving and how she wants to go. But, says she's going with "a guy". Not "boyfriend' or "new boyfriend" or "guy I'm dating". She literally said "a guy" - those exact words.

After overhearing that I'm convinced she, who looks like Alyssa Campanella, likes my friend or at least has a crush on him. I told him AGAIN but he doesn't believe me. To top it all off some times ago they exchanged cell numbers and text each other off and on (not often from what he says). How many attractive bartenders give their cell numbers to customers? My friend thinks she's just being nice because they get along and he tips well since we're regulars.  He also doesn't believe me because he's 35 and she's 26.  I keep telling him there's something going on, but he just coughs it up to her enjoying his company because he's easy going and approachable.  My friend is a good looking guy, but a part of me thinks he just doesn't want to cross that line of bartender/patron.

Another thing that proves my point is during their conversation she talked about where she lives.  My friend is familiar with the area so she tells him the exact apartment building and which floor she lives on.  Now, she wasn't saying this in a "hitting on you" type of way.  It just was conversation. But, I keep telling him women like her don't tell guys these types of things normally.  He knows this (he's not a moron) but won't admit that she [b]may[/b] like him.  I know he has a small crush on her but the age difference is a concern for him and the whole bartender/patron relationship.

What are your thoughts?  Do attractive bartenders give out their numbers to just anyone?  I almost want to ask her flat out if she likes my friend.  But, I think it would place her in an awkward situation.
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