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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think your first instinct was correct.  It's hard, but I'm sure you will find someone special, OP.  You seem very grounded and non-crazy, which I'm finding out from these boards is a rare gem.[/quote]

OP here.  Thanks PP!  I suppose it is best I let him go for good.  It is just really hard because I honestly have never had a connection with anyone like I did with him (ex husband included).  I honestly feel like I will never find that again.[/quote]

This is probably true, you will not find that connection again.  The man is fresh off a divorce, probably not ready to dive head first into another serious relationship, is being honest about that, and the consensus is throw him under the bus.  How about, move on DATE other people, stay friends or in touch with him as he works through the aftermath of his divorce.  Over time, and if you act like an adult not intent on burning bridges, your relationship may take off again.  Maybe it won't but you can decide down the road if you want to remain friends with him.  If you cut it off, and tell him you need a full commitment like wife #2, then it will certainly be the end.  Unless you have a better option waiting in the wings, why are you dissing this upfront and honest guy? [/quote]

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