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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I remember you, OP.  You posted about this a month or so ago. The consensus then was to let him go.  Not only is it too soon for him, he is also is not that interested in you (painful to hear, I know, but no man in pursuit would tell a woman he just wants a friendship without the sex part).   You are his back-up, convenient when he is in the US girl.   Don't be that girl.  Self-respect.  The right guy is out there.  But you wont find him until you extracate yourself from this mess of a situation.  Stop responding to his texts and let him move on and yourself move on to bigger, better and brighter things!![/quote]

divorced guy here - your instincts are spot on.  and as a guy, I have to agree with the PP - no man only wants to be friends with an attractive woman.  he may be a nice guy but he's playing a little bit with you (knowingly or unknowingly) by saying that sex is off the table - you've already slept together he knows you have/had developed feelings for him so it's a bit of an act - probably due to the fact that he's going through the emotional roller coaster of the divorce.  and while I don't condone using any woman like that, I can understand where he's coming from - he found new intimacy in midst of his personal maelstrom and it's very tough to let it go even if what he really wants is mostly sex.

you need to just stop the communication - it hurts but if it's essential for your own mental well-being.  GL[/quote]

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