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[quote=Anonymous]Man, that sucks. I read this and think she's being awfully passive-aggressive with that "I could have had an affair but I didn't" line. It has the effect of hurting you as though she actually DID cheat, but you can't say anything because she DIDN'T cheat. It also has the impact of a tacit threat that she *could* go run off and have a fling if you don't stop arguing with her. It's a crappy argument tactic and not at all fair to you. And it's working, because she got that inside your head and here you are wondering "with who" and analyzing her past behavior. It's thrown you off balance. So my advice - leave it alone, people say things during arguments they tend to later regret saying. I would quibble a little with how you wondered if you should just be "grateful" she didn't have an affair - gratitude is probably not the emotion I would be feeling. But yeah, just ignore it. Has her behavior since changed from the week you described?[/quote]
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