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[quote=Anonymous]I am planning a vacation with DH. We are planning on my 2.5 year old to visit his grandparent's house for the first time. He loves them, see's them on facetime about once a week and in person about once every three months. We have not been there to see them in three years due to the fact that he does not talk to his sisters. It's super complicated and a lot of family baggage I won't go into, but we have been left out of holidays for the past few years, because a) we don't invite ourselves and b) husband won't talk to his sisters and they live there. So fast forward 2 years, I have a baby, my mom dies, which puts whole new perspective on everything, and we are vacationing near their town. DH wants to leave son there for a couple nights. I'm desperate for some child-free vacation but am not comfortable sending him off if I have not stepped foot in their house. I have been hinting for an invite, and now I am at the point where I am going to have a major meltdown. what would you do?[/quote]
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