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[quote=Anonymous]What circumstances led him to start attending higher education at 30? In other words, what did he do with his life in his 20's?

Unless he has a valid reason, I can see where you are coming from.

At 30 yrs of age, a man should already be done with school and ideally be established in a decent or good career.
To be just beginning his studies and still working a low income job would mean he probably made some bad choices early on in his life.

I would need to know what happened in his 20's that led him to this point. 
Was he in jail? Was he on drugs or an alcoholic? Was he raising young children? Taking care of immediate family?

All of this would have to be considered before I would consider him a deal-breaker.

I do not mean to sound shallow, but I have tried to date men who didn't have much at 30 and tried to rationalize it and ignore it and blamed myself for being shallow, but in the end it really does show you something about their characters because usually good men don't waste their lives away like that.[/quote]

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