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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - My husband is a detective (plain clothes) so he wouldn't be walking in in uniform and cops are always allowed to "give cover" so there is no problem there. But maybe you guys are right - I should just send him a letter with a medical questionnaire. When I read that this other woman did send her husband to contact her bio-father, it just seemed like an easier idea. [/quote] Have you even asked your husband about your idea? Pretty sure he would set you straight on what he can and cannot do. Medical history seems like a ruse. I don't think you can stir things up without expecting something else to happen. Your Father probably has a wife and family. Your husband showing up and asking medical history or exposing what was likely an omission your Father's entire life would cause a lot of drama for everyone. It sounds like almost vengeance. You hope he suffers as a result of your contact for all the years he ignored you.[/quote]
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