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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A cop isn't going to get a detailed medical history from an alleged hit and run witness.

Be honest and send a letter stating that you just want to know about medical history.[/quote]

Sorry, I didn't explain this well.  [b]My husband, as a cop, could go to my bio-father's office and ask to speak to him privately about a hit-and-run he may have witnessed or something similar.  Then, once alone, tell bio-father who he was and what we want from him[/b].  I have no idea if my bio-father has a family or if he does, if they know he fathered a child prior.  A cop asking to speak to a potential witness wouldn't invite as many questions as a woman (me) showing up.

As for contacting him directly in a letter - I just don't want to.  I don't want to risk his asking to see me.  I just want the medical information.  [/quote]

The initial deception alone would put me off answering any personal questions.

And your husband is aware that he could get in big trouble for doing this if your biological father complained.[/quote]

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