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[quote=Anonymous]I know the name of my biological father but have never contacted him and have never wanted to.  I read on another message board where a woman in much my same situation had her husband contact her birth father just to get a detailed medical history as the woman and her husband were planning to have a baby.

I would love to do this.  My husband is a police officer and could visit my biological father without causing any disruption in his life (he could say that maybe my bio-father witnessed a hit-and-run or something).  We are planning to have children one day and a medical history would be vital.  I also really don't want to meet my biological father or have any kind of a relationship with him.  He and my mother were boyfriend/girlfriend when they were both 19 and my mother got pregnant with me.  My mother told him she was pregnant and contacted him again after I was born and he didn't want to get involved.  My mother raised me alone and I had a great childhood.  She has since passed away.

All I want is a medical history.  My husband said he would handle it diplomatically and calmly.  Has anyone else ever sent their significant other to get a medical history from their biological parent without ever meeting or personally contacting their bio-parent?  [/quote]

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