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[quote=Anonymous]Agree w/ PP who said 'cream will rise to the top'.  I have dated multiple people from online and not told each of the other, but also not made any exclusivity commitments.

The last go round I met two fantastic women and unusually (in my personal experience) they initiated the sexual part of the relationship...without having any exclusivity discussion.  That got very uncomfortable for me very quickly; it was a "lie by omission" since I think both were kind of expecting it was exclusive.  That sped up my "chosing".  I would avoid going to bed with potentials for as long as you can.

If a woman said something like, "oh I'm busy, let's try later in the month" to me, I'd 100% take that as "I'm not really interested".  Five is a lot to juggle...that will fill up your week very quickly, even seeing each just 1x a week, which is not all that much for the getting to know you phase.  You might thin the herd and stop taking new applicants for a while.

For me, as a non "player" man, 2-3 was the most I could reasonably see at once, and that was casual dating.

Of the two my final ride on the online-merry-go-round, one is now my wife, and I honestly cannot believe my good fortune in finding her.  She later let me know later she was seeing two other guys casually at the same time we first met, but ended that after just one more date each, and before "inviting me into her lair".  [/quote]

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