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[quote=Anonymous]DH's family lives out of town. God forbid we stay in a hotel on visits. This leaves us with a choice of staying with (1) his fun dad and stepmom in their big, comfy house; (2) his brother's family in their house where we my DH, me, and baby must share one bedroom and there is only one bathroom for everyone; and (3) his mother's one bedroom, one bath condo. We choose option 1. MIL is upset that we don't stay with her.  Even though intellectually I know this is unreasonable (there is nowhere for baby to sleep quietly and husband and I have to sleep in an air mattress in living room) I feel guilty. We always make sure to visit with everyone when we are in town but MIL displays no ability to understand why we won't sleep at her place. Am I crazy? Do I need to suck it up and throw her a bone or is my position understandable? FWIW, DH doesn't want to stay there but he feels guilty too. I just feel, as a self-sufficient adult, that it should be okay that I don't want to have a miserable night's sleep and tiptoe around so as not to wake the baby. Right? [/quote]

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