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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi there.
Has anyone BTDT and managed to turn around the situation? I think my husband doesn't love me anymore. Even worse, he doesn't seem to value any aspect of our marriage, despite the kids. He is emotionally detached  and does not try to keep up even the semblance of a married relationship.[b] A few times he inadvertently fantasized about other women, the sweet, quiet, undemanding 25 year old type[/b]. He is a good father, though.

I am terrified that he will want to divorce me. At his request I quit working after our first kid was born four years ago. My prospects in the job market are quite meager. If we get a divorce I would have to move to another part of the town. I absolutely hate the fact that I damaged my earning potential for the sake of my family and now he could basically throw me out on the street. I would not be entitled to alimony because I have a good education.

The second reason why I would abhor a divorce is that I'd hate to destroy our children's home and family. I don't want them to have self-doubts about their being worthy to be loved.

I would appreciate any thoughts/advice.[/quote]

What does that mean? How does someone inadvertently fantasize about other women?[/quote]

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