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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do you stop hoping the person you are with will start caring?  I'm having a hard time realizing he never will, that i am just some sort of weird abstraction for him that helps him live a lot better than he would on his own.[/quote]

I think you just get to the point that you realize you only get one chance at life and you can either continue to live through micro/daily cycles of hope and disappointment. Or you realize that you deserve more. You deserve to be happy, even I that means you live your life as a single person.

Unlike pp, I do think people can change, but the person has to want to change. They have to deeply evaluate what is important in their life and take action to align their life with their priorities. After 18 years it doesn't sound like your DH has the desire to do this.

I'm sorry you are going through ths, OP. I truly am. You deserve happiness. [/quote]

- sorry, just realized pp said people rarely change, not that they can't. I agree, they can, but its very very rare. [/quote]

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