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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]17:50 here.

She's like my mother. But healthy relationships don't need this much wrangling and drama before the main event. [b]I hope you're not thinking that she's all right just because she showed up. [/b]

Remember to disengage next time, when she flicks you on the raw. Don't respond to ludicrous accusations and whining.
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OP here. Absolutely not. At that point, I really didn't want her there. I was just mad. Really, really mad.

She did this for my college (undergrad) graduation too. Came, was really mean and nasty. To the point where there was a lunch outside after and I wanted my family to sit in a certain place with some of my friends and their families. She yelled at me "NO! we're sitting OVER HERE!" There have been other instances as well. I don't think I'm perfect, but I generally get along with people well.

I need to get better at disengaging. At this point, I don't know how to have a relationship with her. My dad is so important to me. We all live in the same city. At this point, I want nothing to do with her.[/quote]

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