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[quote=Anonymous][quote=NOVATransplant][quote=Anonymous][quote=NOVATransplant]Sounds like they wanted to see their new grandbaby and you couldn't be bothered to check your phone.  Sorry, you sound kind of bitchy[/quote]

Bitchy for taking a nap?  WTF?  [/quote]

No, the part for kicking them out of your house.  They now feel that they need to clear it with your husband before they can come over?  Yep, you've seriously damaged the relationship with them.  Lets hope they are the bigger people and accept the apology that you owe them.  Like other posters have said, you should be grateful that you have grandparents nearby who are so willing to offer to lend a hand so you can nap.  Trust me, a large percentage of your peers don't have that and a good percentage of them would give their right arm to have what you do.[/quote]

I'm the PP, but not the OP.  I think I'd be so flustered and out of sorts waking up from a nap and finding people in my house and then having them place the blame on me for not checking my texts, I suspect "this isn't a good time, you need to go" is probably the nicest thing I could say.  Sure, I'd likely call later and apologize for my reaction, but, in turn, I'd also expect an apology for them just showing up and walking into the house without alerting me to their presence.

But that's me.

If there are plans for the in-laws to come over and they insist upon "double checking" with OP's husband every time, that's just passive aggressive and annoying.  [/quote]

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