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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you're in victim mode 5 years later? You had a rebound fling with this guy and that's a two-way street, not something he did to you. You think he used you for sex; didn't you use him for comfort and sex? I just don't understand that line of thinking. We're all using each other? 
Maybe he went into your fling for sex. Maybe he went into it looking for something more but then came to conclusion you two weren't a match, or one or both of you weren't ready. Why assume the worst of intentions when you could assume that he, like you, went into things with good faith?

Your sister and her fiancé probably waited until their relationship was serious to tell you to avoid unnecessary drama and to give time for you to get over your feelings about your brief fling. Seems they were right to be cautious about sharing their news.

If my sister was openly disapproving of my relationship and especially if she treated my child poorly or unfairly, I don't think I'd be able to invite her to my wedding either.

Go see a counselor to talk through your feelings and work toward letting this go. Find a way to forgive for yourself--because the pain and anger you are carrying will affect you more than anyone.[/quote]

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