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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I don't think it's unreasonable for a healthy mid-20s guy to be happy with one time a week and a girlfriend that's hardly ever there. If expressing displeasure about a situation is "whining" when a guy does it, well, I suppose folks will be asking why guys never talk when they're in their 30s. We did, but you said it was whining.[/quote] Well, the girlfriend is 'hardly ever there" because she is not only working 12-14 hours a day but commuting--from the place where he has his job--2 or 2.5 hours a day! What's his day like, OP? How long is his work day and how much does he commute? Does he have down time? Doesn't sound much like you do. If he really wants to address the situation they need to find a new place to live, new jobs, or both. Blaming it only on the lack of sex and only on her misses out on the cause, and addresses only the effect. If they had reasonable schedules, commutes and the sex was still incompatible, then its another issue. [/quote]
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