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[quote=Anonymous]Ditch your version and send 4:451's email after setting up bank & PO box. You don't see it now because you're so emotionally involved (understandably), but your version just feeds into the situation you're trying to separate from. Don't send what you've drafted. Your family won't react well to it. Sorry things are so stressful with your family. Don't expect them to appropriately react to your decision to cut off contact regardless of how strategic you are about the email, etc. And, sorry to say (this lesson I've learned after cutting off my own scapegoating family): don't expect any genuine, positive changes on their end. They won't suddenly "get" how much they care about you, or realize the error of their ways. They'll miss their scapegoat, not "you." The constructive changes that come out of this separation are going to be all yours. [/quote]
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