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[quote=Anonymous]Today I decided that it's best if I cut off my family for a while. After I major event today I have had enough. Me and my family have a LONG history of never ending drama. Today I realized that my family is my major stress triggers. When I'm not around them things go a lot smoother. I have always been the black sheep with them and the problem. They refuse to blame themselves for anything and i am tired of it, sadly I can not simply cut them off without tying up some loose ends. I'm trying to keep my email positive but firm. Please help:

Honestly today's events really hurt me. I'm glad my dogs are safe and am trying to not hold any ill feelings towards anyone despite my feelings about what happened. I honestly feel as though it's best if we cut off contact for awhile (fully). I know I have mentioned this before. At this moment I feel like this is what really needs to happen. I feel like I'm a better person when I'm away from this part of the family. When I am by myself or around others I don't have these problems as much. I just cannot keep trying to fake anymore. I wish I could keep hope that things would change but whenever I start seeing a glimmer it gets squashed. We could go back and forth pointing the finger on who's fault it is and who did what but I JUST CAN'T. I didn't come this far to keep letting incidents like this happen and them for it to be brushed under the rug.

I would really like to start taking to steps to having all of the things we have combined separate please. The joint savings account ( I plan to call the bank tomorrow and set up my own savings account), our phone bills ( please keep in mind for you to be actually off the bill you have to pay the termination fee off), mail that is coming to your house ( this is a hard one but I will try, perhaps I can set up a P.O. Box and you send my mail there). Please be willing to work with me to make these things happen.

Thanks in advance....[/quote]

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