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[quote=Anonymous]Man here.  Give him a chance. Married 20 years means he is able to be in a serious relationship and stick with it through thick and thin.  Plus you and he didn't sleep together until after dating for 3 months.  If he was a player he wouldn't have put that much time into you just to get laid, let alone make you breakfast in bed and snuggle through a couple of movies (extra points if they were chick flicks).
His investment in you and all the post-sex attention he gave you seems to describe a person who takes relationships seriously. This is a good sign if you're looking for that.

Unless you've got men lining up to date you, give this guy the space he needs to sort the impact of this.  Guys with his history and attentiveness enjoy being in relationships.  If you don't want him, some woman will grab him for the next 20 years.  If you can wait 3 months before sex it's reasonable to give him the time he needs to process his feelings.  One way or another you'll figure out where this is going in a few weeks and you have nothing to loose but your pride in waiting (and everything to gain.)
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