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[quote=Anonymous]I am recently married after dating for 6 years. I have tried everything I can to be nice and respectful to his mother, father and sister. Over the years I have hosted parties, paid for weekend trips, been to each and every family function. I have tried to get them to know me while getting to know them. I am okay with his dad mostly. But his mom and sister are hard eggs to crack. I was told by a mutual friend that they do not like nor approve of me and feel their son settled with me because he felt like he had no other options. I have also found out that over the course of our relationship they have taken him out to dinners with other dates that they wanted him to go out with. He was clueless and just thought they were having him come to dinner to meet their friends. I am having trouble getting over that one. I thought after the wedding they would wake up and realize I'm not going anywhere. But now since we are married they have just been excluded both of us from holidays, days out and dinners. For example, easter I tried for weeks to see what they had planned and kept getting told they didn't know. I then said I was happy to host them and my family over to our place, they said they were having easter at their place but could try to stop by. When I said we could come to their house they told me not to bother myself with it since I would be busy cooking for our dinner. W.t.h. does it get easier? Should I just stop trying all together?[/quote]

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