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[quote=Anonymous]I've posted many times on here about my experiences with online dating -- and your last post, OP, is spot on.  There is a lot of crossover.  I did that at times, and would see the same guys over and over.  I might do a paid site (religious) and then a free site (OKC) at the same time.  I was consistent of course b/c I wasn't lying about anything.

There are lots of men and women who are serial daters.  It's up to you to weed through all the BS to find someone that is right for you.  It's no different than meeting people IRL, except you have no references for them (like you would through a friend or through a group).  Otherwise, you have to meet (and probably kiss!) a lot of frogs.  I agree it's quantity over quality, but you will get better at figuring out what to look for.

I've also said before, broaden your searches, give good men a try in person, even if they are not the same religion, they have some other thing that strikes you as "not ideal."  There is always going to be some compromise.  You should have a short list of your non-negotiables...and lots of things can be changed.

That's what I did and eventually I met a great guy.  It was a learning process -- I wasted time with men that were not right for me.  I had to do that to figure out what I absolutely needed and then I stuck to it.  I had fun in the process, but I also got hurt.  It happens.  Have some fun with it...get out, be social, give some guys a chance.  [/quote]

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