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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks PP,  I do too (OP here).

So far it seems like quantity over quality on match. Out of the 'steady traffic'  so far I've replied to emails from 2 guys who actually mentioned something in my profile that they found interesting/we had in common, didn't identify as something I have as a deal-breaker (e.g. separated, not single/widowed/divorced) and didn't sound creepy or angry. One I am still emailing with, about 3-4 emails in, I would think the logical next step would be coffee or a drink soon. I have emailed 5 men myself now who I thought sounded interesting, haven't heard back from any yet. From what I have seen on my searches and the matches suggested that are sent to me, there might be another 10 or 15 guys that I would be interested enough to initiate emails myself.

One thing I did find interesting is comparing notes with a friend who's on another site. We identified some of the same guys on both. It seems that it's reasonably common to be on more than one site, but it's interesting how the profiles are tailored (or not) to the specific sites (she's on a religious site), and guys claim they are so into their faith on that site don't even mention it on Match, or have basically copy/pasted their Match profile onto the religious site, with no mention at all of how they actually are or practice that faith.

She did get one message from a guy who listed his ideal date as going for a hot dog at Costco, and answered the question ''what have you learned from previous relationships' with the statement that he hadn't had any. He lists his age as 32.

It's an interesting world out there. [/quote]

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