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[quote=Anonymous]I understand how hard it is to talk w/someone about your issues OP. Just to vent to someone can take the pressure off your chest!! I guess you could say that is why we are here. There is a lot of venting on here and I suspect many a posters go to bed at night feeling a little less burdened and a little more relieved, I hope. :)

I know that therapists cannot change your spouse, but have you thought of changing therapists? What exactly is your goal in therapy? I am sure you know it cannot be to change HIM. It should be to change how you react to HIM and how you ultimately want to have the ability to live your life w/out feeling the need to depend on HIM for whatever you feel you need HIM for.

Since he is abusive to you, I hope you know you do not have to stay w/him for life.

There is another life waiting for you out there.
And you are special and unique and deserve to live a special and unique existence w/out abuse of any kind.

It IS possible believe it or not. It is doable.

It may not be easy and it may not be able to be done overnight, but what is broken can be fixed.

You are worth so much more. You need to believe this yourself.

Once you truly believe this yourself, then you can take the bull by it's horns and take the necessary steps to take back control of your life.

Get your spirit back.

Hope this helps.

*HUGS*

Tenfold. :)[/quote]

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