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[quote=Anonymous]Whoa OP...I think you need to put on the brakes on this!

You've only been communicating for 2 mos., then just had dinner this past Tuesday, and are already planning on taking a trip w/him??! Good grief.

Or:

Do you mean you have been seeing him for 2 mos. and you last saw him this past Tuesday for dinner and you guys have been planning a trip together for August?

If the former, then I wouldn't be surprised he went radio silent since the whole scenario is just weird. So weird that I cannot even advise you on anything one way or another.

Hopefully it is the latter which sounds more doable.
First, I would try to make sure he is okay.
Make sure he is not in the hospital or in jail as the previous poster questioned. Highly unlikely, but possible. Abducted by aliens? Kidnapped for ransom? Very unlikely and not possible.

Give him a few more days, then send him more than just a "smiley face" text. An emotion is cute, but perhaps write an actual message, tell him something that happened to you or ask his advice about something. See how he responds.

If he doesn't, then I wouldn't push it.
Sometimes people lose interest or meet someone else and they are in an awkward position of having to cut someone out of their lives. No one wants to tell someone directly that they are no longer interested, trust me..So they take the easy way out + just disappear. Cease all communication.

They know it's rude and unfair to leave the other party hanging, but they feel it is a lot better than to tell the person directly that they are being dumped unceremoniously.

It was only 2 mos. I know you must really have liked this guy...As a woman, I fall hard and I fall fast. And I tend to get my heart broken a lot because of this.

Try to not let yourself fall so hard next time. Easier said than done, I know, but you must protect your heart for all it's worth.

Good luck.

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