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[quote=Anonymous]Dear OP, He has a problem: it is a problem that is impacting your lives and it's going to get worse. This may help you: years ago someone said to me "In pointing out to you that he probably has a problem, I'm not telling you that you can't love him. I'm just telling you that he has a problem." When I did intervention with DH, I made sure to say to him "I'm still going to love you. But I can't love what you're doing. We need to get help." It made a difference. Please attend Al Anon this weekend -- tonight if you can. Sending up thoughts for you; it can get better. Signed, Spouse and daughter of alcoholics who 'just needed to relax with the help of a drink' until intervention gave me back a spouse and a parent. PS: Sadly, it is not uncommon for adult children of alcoholics to find themselves in relationships with alcoholics and still not see the signs and still ask questions such as you are. [/quote]
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