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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Firstly, the only one that's really an issue is the one about picking up the kid because as a parent you have a right to know where your child is at all times.

Stop asking your husband so many details about his boys nights out. Just ask if he had fun, say you're glad, and move on. You sound harpy and insecure asking all those detailed questions.

Your husband is not lying to you when he stops somewhere on the way home - he starts home, then realizes he wants/needs something, so he gets it.

It sounds like you're looking for reasons to be angry at your husband. Unclench. [/quote]

Agree with everything here.  Only would care about not knowing where my kid is in case of an emergency.  The other stuff is no big deal.  I don't ask DH a ton of questions about his nights because I trust him/don't really care to know where they ate, where they went for drinks, who was there, etc.  He's an adult and can decide what he wants to do regarding food or errands.  I'd only be mad if he was expected to be home at a certain time and was an hour late because he decided to stop somewhere else.

You're trying to police him and control what he does.  Something tells me you've expressed annoyance at what he does when he's told you (like he stops somewhere else to get a burger and you harp about how you TOLD him you had burgers there) and he just finds it easier to not tell you than get attacked.

Lighten up[/quote]

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