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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She loves both and is generally a good person, but its clear to me that she favors our son.  DS is 8 and DD is 5.

Examples (this week):
1. DS is in a bad mood and called DD "fat face".  When DD gets whiny about it MIL tells DD not to escalate the situation.
2. DD likes to sing to music we play in the car.  DS gets really annoyed about it.  He usually tells her to stop (not nicely).  [b]MIL will tell DD she isn't being "good" because she was asked to stop and isn't.  [/b]3. DD tells/tattles on DS.  No matter what the reason MIL will tell DD to stop "telling stories".

This morning I told MIL that she is 5, this is normal, and we need to teach the difference between telling and tattling.  That at telling a 5 yr old to "stop b/c its not nice" is confusing.  They are learning that rules are important and that sometimes you need to "tell".   Of course MIL is now annoyed at me and thinks I favor DD.

I don't want a confrontation as she is generally well intentioned but I wish she would stop criticizing only DD so much.  If she wants she can criticize both--since both are at fault, or none.

What have you done in this situation. TIA[/quote]

I have a problem with this one. Why does your daughter have to stop because her brother wants her too?  Why does he get final say on who and when someone sings? [/quote]

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