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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I am separated but not sure if we will get divorced or reconcile. We leave DS in our home 100 percent of the time, each of us stays in the house with him 50 percent of the time, and goes to a shared apt the other 50 percent of the time. For us, it is a logistical nightmare, but DS seems happy with the set up, so we continue it. [/quote] This is the best solution for the child; however, it takes two pretty amicable parents to carry this off. I think most separations occur with one of the parents moving to an apartment and taking the child for several overnights a week. Most courts would allow 50/50 custody, but practically speaking it usually doesn't end up this way. Definitely pursue finding your own therapist to help you work through this stuff. Your joint therapist would also be a great person to facilitate some of the discussions concerning logistics and temporary custody arrangements.[/quote]
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