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[quote=Anonymous]You know, I used to be a bit like your wife (not to that extreme, but critical), and I have changed. It's possible. DH pushed me on it, we had some arguments, and I realized I was wrong. Some of it is my inherent anxious/perfectionistic tendencies I was projecting on him, and that wasn't cool. I'm not perfect about not doing it, but I'm a lot better, and we're more on the same page about figuring out what needs to be done and what can slide. Talk to your wife tonight. Tell her everything you did and how upset you were that she picked on something you didn't, that you felt taken for granted. See what she has to say--she may apologize, or she may feel like other areas of your life are unbalanced. If she's complaining about her paycheck covering family expenses (What else would it be for?), you may have something bigger going on. Good luck.[/quote]
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