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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel robbed of my thirties and then some, and financially robbed. He was a deadbeat loser in hindsight, and because I kept trying to make it work for years, I end up paying him way too much alimony for too many years. Getting ready to sign separation agreement this week, and he's making further demands and threats that could royally screw me more. I need the strength to get thru this week and the next month, when he's to move out. Please, please can we get this signed so I can try and move on? What a HUGE mistake this whole marriage was......did I mention he'll pay no child support and asked for one week per year w kids? At least he's moving out if state when he goes.[/quote] What? Do not sign that agreement.[/quote] No CS and a-hole gets only only 1 week with the kids is a great compromise if he's really this toxic. The problem with the current custody climate is that the most likely way he'll pay no CS is 50/50 custody. Spare yourself and the kids. CS can always be requested at a later date if you need it. It is much harder to get the courts to reduce time with a toxic parent. Before all the men's rights crowd chimes in, please note that I said toxic parent, not specifying any gender. Women can be toxic parents, too.[/quote]
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