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[quote=Anonymous]I'd be really mad, too. But, you have to think about what will have the biggest, easiest impact. I think your DH's idea is good. And then have a good talk with your kids about their aunt/uncle/cousin's strong religious beliefs and how it doesn't coincide with yours or (probably) the vast majority of their friends. Warn them that these relatives will probably try to scare them and make them feel guilty (with the best of intentions) but that they shouldn't be worried and afraid and they can talk to you about it. I'd be inclined to point out things like the homeschooling - ask them if they agree with it, etc. Your kids will be fine (as long as you keep talking to them) so it's just an annoyance, really. You could tell your kids that you don't want to be too upfront with your relatives because they may try harder to convert you all. It must be really confusing for your kids - please talk to them and let them know the way they were raised and their beliefs are absolutely fine and nothing to be ashamed of. I'd draw the line at prayer before meals in my own home - fine in their home. Just tell them (they probably know already).[/quote]
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