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[quote=Anonymous]So many posts about cheating and cheaters and people being shocked to learn of infidelity.  Just wondering how anyone ever fully trusts.  I really thought I did... but with the advent of smartphones and multiple email addresses I am finding it difficult lately.  Prior to DH, I was in 2 serious long term relationships and both ended with my partner being unfaithful in ways I completely didn't see coming.  I used to always feel secure in my relationship just knowing I could easily check internet history, email, or his phone (although I think I can count on one hand the number of times I did this without him knowing - married 10 years).  But lately, his phone is always in his pocket, he has many work email addresses, and he's up later than me pretty much every night.  So even if I wanted to check up on things, there really is no way to do so completely.  We have 2 young children and are stressed out in many ways, so our relationship and sex life are not getting the attention they used to get.  I'm starting to get uneasy in the trust area and feeling a huge disconnect with DH, who it seems is always on his phone or computer when he is home - which doesn't feel like much of the time.  I hate feeling this way and have talked to him about it and it does get better for a few weeks and then it goes right back to the disconnect again.  Any advice?[/quote]

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