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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]OK, first things first I can see why you are upset but you definitely CANNOT tell your son to punch this kid back. If he does, then they will both be disciplined regardless of who started it. Not a great precedent to set for DS.[/b]

I would let the teacher know that I think DS and Kid X might be having some trouble getting along appropriately and ask if she has seen any signs of this or if she would be willing to keep an eye on their interactions.

I would talk to DS about how to handle this kid in the future and emphasize that it is always better to ask a grownup for help solving a problem than it is to get into a fight, because physical aggression is not OK. Basically, I would encourage him to firmly tell the other kid once "X stop that and keep your hands off me" and then to tell the teacher if it happens again after the warning.[/quote]

Don't know if I agree with this. Children need to learn how to stick up for themselves and that includes self-defense. I'd much rather my child be disciplined for standing up for him/herself than to have them tortured because a bully viewed them as easy prey. That is what sets the precedent.

OP, I would look into some sort of self defense class for your son. It will teach him discipline (so that he doesn't become a bully himself), but will also give him the confidence to stick up for himself, if necessary. Most times he won't have to; bullies can spot weakness and if you show physical confidence, they will typically leave you alone. [/quote]

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