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[quote=Anonymous]We have been struggling with our relationship for 3 years. Our son is 2. I moved out a year and a half ago and since then it has been a roller-coaster. Nothing seems to work. I am in therapy. He is too. But we are not in couples' therapy. He would say that we are finished and then a month later we end up spending time as family. Then we argue again - he doesnt want to be in a committed relationship with me because he doesnt believe I have changed, I get angry because I cannot show him I can be different if we are not in a relationship. Then i blow up. He leaves me again saying that it is enough and we need to move on with our lives. A month ago we spent 5 days in a row together. After the argument he sent me an email saying that it is time to end this and that we can not work our issues out and that I need to move on. I can tell this is the end. I have been trying to talk to him but all I hear is that he is done and not coming back. I am very upset and cannot concentrate on anything. Our son is sensing everything too. I do not know what to do. I know I need to leave him alone but it is so hard to think he is seeing someone. I am afraid of total separation and growing apart. I am a mess. He promised not to mislead me again by asking me to spend time together. And that is a sign of him moving on. What bothers me is that it is easy for him. And I cannot put myself together. What to do???[/quote]

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