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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - to the PPs, im trying to say "I was annoyed that they kept telling my their plans to include me along, but when it came down to it, we would only meet up if it was at their convenience.[/quote]

Hmm, I would expect meeting up to be mostly at their convenience. They're not the ones who live here. You had things going on and they had things going on. I think you're reading too much into their behavior. Also, you should be communicating with them directly and not through your mom.[/quote]

Yeah, OP, I get your frustration but they already put the mileage in coming for a visit.  You lvie 10 minutes from your parents but couldn't come over to see them there?  Sure, they could have driven the 10 minutes, but they have a long drive home ahead of them (I assume, you don't say where they're from)  Certainly their drive back home is longer than yours.

Try to see from their perspective.  They were indecisive about their plans, but felt like they had to keep you in the loop, and when it came down to it, they didn't want to go out again.  They wanted to rest, one brother actually felt sick, and decided to spend more time with some family, yet their sister couldn't be bothered to drive 10 minutes over to their parents' house.  Honestly, one of them could be posting on DCUM about it.

Deep breaths, move on.[/quote]

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