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[quote=Anonymous]Thanks, this is OP. I did 3 cycles for DD, and I just had adhesions surgery and then a failed FET for #2. I am gearing up for another FET, but trying to prepare for a long haul. Hopefully one of my frozens takes, but I may need to do a fresh again... UGH. I am also starting to get anxious that they're going to be farther apart than I'd wanted, and anxious that I may need to transfer 2 and risk twins (we really don't want twins and so far are doing SET transfers each time, which I also realize may cause it to take longer). What I find hard is that I didn't expect it to be so emotionally distressing the second time around- since I do have a beautiful daughter who is 2 years 3 months and is the light of my life. But I just can't help getting caught up in the roller coaster, and I don't know whether to be optimistic or pessimistic each cycle- whether to POAS or not (drives me crazy, esp. since I've had a chemical before), whether to stop drinking or drink, whether to assume it will or won't work, how to plan my life, whether to plan any summer trips or vacations because I don't know if I will still be doing this... UGH.[/quote]
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