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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You met this guy a month ago and you're already taking days off during the week to hang out? Talk about a red flag.[/quote]

Why is it not okay to take a mental health day and spend it with someone you're excited about?

OP, it's early in the relationship still. I knew I'd met "the one" pretty quickly, but that didn't change the trajectory of our relationship. We still got to know each other, gradually introduced each other to the other people in our lives (my daughter and parents and siblings, his parents and close friends as he has no kids or siblings), traveled together, etc. We moved in together when we got engaged and got married a month later. That was 2 years after our first date.

Enjoy the time you're having now. Continue to build a relationship. If complications happen (and they will), figure out how to deal with those things. Talk about your life priorities, what you want out of the rest of your life. Build a solid relationship, and take it from there. You don't need to run off to the courthouse tomorrow, but it's okay to think about maybe running off to the courthouse at some point in the future.[/quote]

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