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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm surprised no one has said this. I'm sorry but move on OP. You are doing all the work. Even assuming he adores you and wants a serious relationship, your relationship is already so unbalanced that it's a recipe for unhappiness. You're at his beck and call. Trust me, this stuff does NOT get better, only worse. His actions are telling you what he is willing to put into your relationship. He has chosen to prioritize his career at this time, and that's fine, but it means any relationship with him will be unbalanced and focused on his needs and schedule. And I don't think any woman is happy in that type of relationship long term. [/quote]

+1 this poster is spot-on, and very perceptive.
OP, in all of this time he has never once come to you, never once made the 200 mile trek?
I don't care how busy he is, or how tender and sweet when you see each other - this speaks volumes.
He has no problem summoning you at the last minute - and I imagine he is not expressing his concern that you are burdened with this?
His career is his priority, and you are making things nice and easy for him by doing all of the work to maintain your relationship, which he can enjoy the benefits of without any of the work. All that being said, that doesn't actually mean that he doesn't care for you or see a future with you, but that he is very self-focused at this point in his life. None of this would be a deal-breaker but the thing is, you are feeling unfulfilled, and in truth there is a very different feeling in a relationship that is more balanced, where your partner is right there with you.
It sounds like you don't even really know if he is your boyfriend at this point.[/quote]

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