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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]they never tell it to anyone or talk about it
they cheat with someone none of their friends/family/SO knows, preferably out of town 
they have flexible work schedules 
they don't see each other that often [/quote]

This post nails it. Not all of the above applies in each instance but it covers in a few sentences how to avoid getting caught.

I came under fire on the thread that asked if cheating can actually be good for a marriage and I answered it was certainly the case based on my marriage. I am not about to open that debate again but what I would add to the above - if one wants to keep it from getting out - is to cheat with someone who has the same basic reasons for cheating as you do and who is just as anxious to keep it secret.

I wanted to ensure that my marriage stayed intact, my family was not hurt by it and the person who one is cheating with has as much to lose - perhaps even more so - if it ever became known.

The above combined with some basic precautions and the odds of it surfacing are minimal to none.

Finally, those who do get caught at some level are probably not averse to being found out because they leave clues that reveal what they are doing. Very few men are monogamous in the long run. I not seeking to justify my own conduct in saying this but am basing it what I know, for a fact, goes on with other men. [/quote]

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