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[quote=Anonymous]http://www.inspire.com/groups/living-after-infertility-resolution/topics/living-childfree/

PPs - please stop accusing the OP of not trying hard enough or not exhausting her finances to the last penny. She said she is done, so let's trust her that she has thought about this for a while and is not just having a bad day. Also stop asking her for her medical details so you can compare her situation to yours to make yourself feel better about how maybe you aren't at the end of your TTC journey yet.

OP asked for help with her grieving process and most of you are not helping. OP - I haven't been in your shoes, but I'm guessing the only thing that helps is allowing yourself to grieve and the passing of time. Just like when you were doing treatments you should talk about it or not, avoid other people's pregnancy announcements and children, or not. You should do what ever works for you and know that it's ok to change your mind about what's working any time you want. I hope you have a good support system to help you through this. The fact that you are sad doesn't mean you love your child any less. [/quote]

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