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[quote=Anonymous]So sorry OP. This does sound terrible. I dont see you as playing head games with your husband based on what you have said here.

What your DH is doing with the wine sounds very manipulative of HIM. I dont like that he is attempting to make you responsible to be his gatekeeper to the wine via your decision to have or have not. I see what you are saying.

Also the part of threatening suicide and then lawsuit. I am so sorry- this sounds like the kind of hyperdarmatic stuff my husband has been known to do. Its mind blowing and makes you feel like you are in the twilight zone.

My daughter sees through his anger rage/blame issues. But I hope he too does not return to his ways.

If you are able to separate, financially/logistically, then I think it sounds like a good idea. It sounds like your DH needs to be accountable to himSELF, which, as long as you are around, he simply may not ever be motivated to do.

Alcoholism is a very frightening addiction, I feel, because it can hide in plain sight. Dreadful.

Good Luck OP.

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