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[quote=Anonymous]OP - have you been to Alanon? Is there more you aren't telling us about your husband hitting bottom before the intervention? You know what makes me snippy? Head games and being manipulated and controlled and treated like a child. I've never lived with an alcoholic, but my impression is that a true alcoholic would not have been able to refrain from finishing that last "splash" glass, might have asked to take the extra in the bottle to go, might have gone out for more drinks after you fell asleep, or other behaviors that indicate a lack of control. Maybe you are the issue and your husband sometimes needs a drink to work up to telling you what he thinks and you don't like to hear negative things so you make him think he has a drinking / anger problem when really you have a control problem. I think you need couples counselling. Why is he sometimes seeing a counselor anyway? Why not AA with a sponsor? [/quote]
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