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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You seem pretty dead set on the "well we told you so. We prepared you. Not my fault" type of mentality while FIL is telling you it was just too much. Instead of acknowledging that you seem hell bent on saying that was his fault. Honestly, if that is how you are acting, I can see why FIL is annoyed[/quote] OP here I have acknowledged that it was too much for them 20 times since we got back and apologized as much as I can. But when he says "You didnt tell us x" and we did tell them x, how do I respond?[/quote] You just say you are sorry that you didn't think to discuss it beforehand. Obviously you couldn't think of everything -- but don't tell them that. Don't be defensive. Just say sorry and let it go.[/quote]
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