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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is really admirable of your DH to want to make sure all the siblings are together, but his ex and her DH could be really offended by this. What if something happens to your financial stability and you can't afford to fund all the kids. Who do you think you will want to pull? You know it won't be your child.

I wouldn't touch that situation with a 10 foot pole. Maybe DH can offer for you to do other things to give the sibling more time with all the other kids so that they are together. For example, if you are taking the other 3 kids on vacation, ask ex if her son can attend. Maybe tell ex, we are sending all the kids to XYZ camp, maybe when making your camp decision, you might consider sending Johnny there too....[/quote]

OP, don't let fear of what might happen rule your decision.  Suggest this in a calm decent way and see what happens.

I think your DH solution is better than the PP solution. This is being equal and fair to all kids.  I am sure the other parents can reciprocate in some other way.[/quote]

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