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[quote=Anonymous]My very good friend who is an amazing mom, and professional has separated from her DH. He's always been "checked out" of the marriage. He's a terrible DH, and pretty crappy dad from my observations. Anyways, they sold their home and are living separately. I know friend hopes for a reconciliation but knows its unlikely since her DH hasn't shown interest. Prior to their separation, I became aware that he lied to her about visiting his parents but went to Vegas hooked up with strippers in his hotel room. He was with a friend whose wife found out and wanted to contact my friend to inform her. I didn't want to get involved so I didn't give the number or tell her. I felt like it was so obvious her marriage was bad I didn't want add to it and possibly pass info that could end it for good especially bc they have a young child. I thought about STDs. I thought a Lot about this but a part of me felt like I had to myob bc she hadn't talked expressly about their issues.  If she had I may have acted differently. So after thinking about it didn't pass on her number. This woman would have to find another way. Not sure of she did. But I didn't want to ruin their marriage.

Now they have been separated for a year and I feel like this is important for the divorce and currently he's begged her to leave out lawyers, and just make a plan themselves but he refuses child support. I want her armed with the information that gives her dd and her the most advantage but I don't want her hurt further by this info.  She's going thru so much. She's a fairly good friend of 4yrs. Is it my place to tell her? She's a very savy and intelligent woman. The separation was her idea. Maybe she knows about his behaviour as it is? [/quote]

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