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[quote=Anonymous]Sort of a spin off of the other ongoing thread about wife wanting to renew vows. We are interested in doing something like this, but not in public if that makes sense. We went through an absolutely hellish time in our marriage and separated for almost a year (we coparented our two kids and actually were able to remain friends and we were in marriage counseling this whole time, but were separated). We pulled it together, and almost two years later, are in a much, much better place (still get counseling about every 6 weeks or so and still a work in progress). The big wedding years where all of our friends were getting married in big clusters in our 20s ended years ago. But, this fall we went to a good friend's wedding ceremony and it kind of gutted the both of us. I think since our wedding over a decade ago, we've both matured a lot, and frankly grown up a lot, and since getting married so long ago, and have learned a lot about patience, putting someone else's needs first, and just like I said growing up and have more compassion for ourselves and others. Anyway, we are going to take a short trip this summer just the two of us and we were thinking of doing something...not quite a vow renawal and obviously it would just be us going and no one else...but something symbolic. I realize a lot of people will roll their eyes so feel free to move on but wondering if anyone has done something like this and has any tips or advice.[/quote]
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