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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If he was turning out to be [b]less successful professionally [/b]than you thought he would be (like not being partner material), would you consider divorce?   What if you were getting the impression that he was [b]turning out [/b]to be more "beta" than "alpha" mail in professional or social situations?  [/quote]

I think what you are saying is that your DH isn't bringing home the big money that you planned for him to earn, back when you were dating.

The issue is, back when you were dating, he was the same person that he is now.  He has not "turned out" to be anything.  He is who he is.

So if you divorce, you should be clear that it is because you don't want to be married to the person you chose of your own free will back then - because you want to be married to someone who makes more money than that person does.

Right?[/quote]

Some people use the Checklist approach when choosing an SO, others of us just fall in love.  I'm in the "fell in love" camp.[/quote]

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