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[quote=Anonymous]Well, not actual intercourse, anyway. They saw each other regularly for years and had a very physical relationship. It doesn't appear that either loved the other or had a very strong emotional bond. Yet, he claims they never had actual intercourse because: 1) she had lots of partners and he was worried about catching something; 2) he didn't feel the need because he was getting his other physical needs met; and 3) he didn't want to raise her expectations of him. Apparently she didn't require much in the way of reciprocation either. Just a six pack, a ride home, and a few compliments. She had lots of other boyfriends.

It doesn't make sense to me that such a physical relationship would end with blowjobs. Yet she did, indeed, have a V.D. and my husband and I tested clean. So that backs up his story, or does it? A year into recovery, he has maintained this story, while admitting to all kinds of horrible betrayals. Actually, I'd rather they'd had sex because this story is so confusing and hard to accept, it makes me doubt everything else.

Do you think it's possible to have a purely physical affair that stops short of intercourse? Why draw the line there? Why lie if the "truth" sounds fishier than the lie? What else am I missing?[/quote]

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